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First moves

My landlord won't return my security deposit — what do I do first?

The short answer: don't start by arguing — start by checking the clock. Nearly every state gives your landlord a written deadline (commonly 14 to 30 days after you move out) to return your deposit or send an itemized list of deductions. If that deadline has passed, or they never sent the itemized list, the law is already on your side. Your first three moves: read your lease for the deposit terms, confirm your state's deadline, and send a written demand letter asking for the deposit or the itemized accounting.

Step 1: check whether the deadline has even passed

Most states give landlords a written deadline to return your deposit or send an itemized list of deductions — commonly 14 to 30 days after you move out or hand over the keys. Some states are shorter, a few are longer. Check your state’s deadline →

If the deadline has passed with no check and no itemized list, the landlord hasn’t just been slow — they’ve usually violated the statute. That matters: many states let you recover multiples of the deposit (commonly two or three times) when a landlord withholds it in bad faith or misses the deadline entirely.

Step 2: ask for the itemized list — in writing

In nearly every state, a landlord who keeps any of your deposit must send you a written, itemized accounting of what they kept and why. “Cleaning, $400” on a napkin doesn’t count. If you never got one, ask for it by email or text so there’s a record, and keep a copy. What to do if the itemized list never came →

Step 3: stop negotiating on the phone

From this point on, everything in writing. Phone calls are where deposit disputes go to die — nobody can prove what was promised. Email or text, calm and short, with dates and dollar amounts. This paper trail is also exactly what a judge wants to see if you end up in small claims court. How small claims works for deposits →

Don’t cash a partial check or sign anything yet A landlord who sends part of the deposit with a release form is asking you to waive the rest — never sign a release or “settlement” without understanding you may be giving up your claim to the remainder. Be careful about cashing the check itself, too: if it’s marked “payment in full” or carries similar wording, cashing it can legally settle your whole claim for that amount in some states (called “accord and satisfaction”), wiping out the rest of what you’re owed. This varies a lot by state. If any check or letter hints that it’s the final word, talk to a tenant attorney in your state before you cash it or sign anything.

The order that wins

  1. Read the lease. Note the deposit amount, any stated return terms, and your move-out date.
  2. Check your state’s deadline. Mark the calendar date the landlord’s clock ran out.
  3. Request the itemized list in writing if you never received one.
  4. Send a demand letter asking for the full deposit (or the correct remainder) by a specific date, usually 7 to 14 days out. Demand letter template →
  5. File in small claims court if the letter is ignored. Deposit cases are small claims’ bread and butter.

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Informational only — not legal advice.

Security-deposit rules are state law, and they differ a lot from one state to the next. Check your state’s tenant-rights resources or talk to a local tenant-rights organization or attorney before acting. Nothing on this site creates an attorney-client relationship.